Why does my dog only jump on guests, not on us?

Guests are novel and exciting, and they pay better — most visitors greet an incoming jump with hands, voices, and eye contact. Your dog has learned family is boring but guests are slot machines.

Does kneeing the dog in the chest work?

No, and it can injure the dog. For most dogs it reads as rough play (more excitement) or as scary (fear around greetings, which can become defensive behavior). Withhold attention and pay the sit instead.

How do I stop jumping on children?

Manage first — leash or gate between dog and child until training holds, because children move and squeal in ways that supercharge jumping. Teach the child to 'be a tree' (still, arms folded) and reward the dog heavily for calm around kids.

My puppy is small and cute now. Should I bother?

Yes — this is the single best time. Every adorable puppy jump that gets a cuddle is a rep of training for a 30 kg adolescent doing the same thing. Pay four-on-the-floor from day one.

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Fix-it guide · 2–3 weeks · Positive reinforcement (reinforce an incompatible greeting)

How to Stop a Dog Jumping Up on People

Reviewed by Sarah Mitchell, CPDT-KA · Updated July 1, 2026

The short answer

Jumping is paid attention — even pushing the dog off is a payment. Remove all attention for jumping (turn away, go still), and pay lavishly for four-paws-on-floor or a sit. Manage greetings with a leash or gate while you retrain, and brief your guests: the humans are half the training problem.

Severity
Time: 2–3 weeks
Method: Positive reinforcement (reinforce an incompatible greeting)

Why it happens

Dogs greet faces — puppies lick adult dogs' muzzles, and jumping is the human-height version. Every giggle, push, knee, and 'off!' delivers exactly what the dog wanted: interaction. The behavior persists because it has been reinforced hundreds of times, often most enthusiastically by the visitors who claim not to mind.

The phased plan

1
Cut off the payroll
Days 1–3
Goal: Jumping earns nothing, ever
- Household rule: jumping = instantly turn away, arms folded, zero eye contact and zero words.
- The moment four paws hit the floor, turn back and greet warmly at dog level.
- Manage arrivals with a leash, pen, or baby gate so guests can't accidentally pay the jump.
2
Train the paycheck position
Days 4–10
Goal: Sitting becomes the greeting that works
- Practice calm greetings with family: approach, and only interact when the dog sits or stands calmly.
- Reward with attention AND treats — greet low so the dog doesn't need to jump to reach your face.
- Do 5–10 mock arrivals a day: walk in the door, pay the sit, walk out, repeat.
3
Add real guests
Days 11–21
Goal: Generalize to visitors
- Brief every guest before they enter: ignore jumping, greet only when seated dog.
- Keep the dog on leash for arrivals; scatter treats on the floor as guests enter to keep the nose down.
- Track jumps-per-greeting weekly — expect steady decline, not perfection overnight.

Common mistakes

Kneeing, pushing, or shouting — all are attention, and rough responses can add fear to the excitement.
Letting "dog people" guests reward jumping because they don't mind — the dog can't tell who minds.
Only training when guests arrive instead of rehearsing calm greetings daily.
Ignoring the jumping but forgetting to pay the alternative — the dog needs a behavior that works.

When to see a professional

If jumping comes with mouthing that bruises, ripping clothes, or targets children and elderly family in ways you cannot manage safely, get in-person help from a certified force-free trainer.

Frequently asked questions

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TrainHow to Teach a Dog to SitHold a treat just above your dog's nose and move it slowly back over their head — as the nose follows, the rear drops. The moment they sit, mark ('yes!') and treat. After a few reps, add the word 'sit' right before the lure, then fade the lure to a hand signal.

TrainHow to Teach a Dog 'Go to Your Mat'Put a mat down, and reward any interest in it — a look, a step, a paw. Shape toward all four paws on, then a down, then duration. Add the cue 'mat' once the dog charges over reliably. The mat becomes a paycheck zone, which is exactly why it fixes doorbell chaos and dinner begging.

TrainHow to Teach a Dog to StayStart with your dog in a sit, say 'stay,' wait one second, then reward before they move. Slowly add duration, then distance, then distractions — always returning to reward at the dog's side, never calling them out of the stay. Build one variable at a time.

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